So many people have been extremely fortunate in that they have achieved what they set out to do in their careers.   However, sometimes that can leave one feeling empty – with that nagging question of what is next?  All to often, he or she feels a big void in their life.  Is that it? Is [...]

Parents facing divorce have 2 key things they think and fight about Money Children At Fairway Divorce Solutions, we assist couples in dealing with both matters. Our unique and structured mediation process has parents focus on the money issue first. Once the money issue is resolved, only then do we assist couples in addressing the [...]

We know that the most powerful tool in manifesting our dreams and goals is to have a clear vision of what we want. Our painted picture of what we want “it” whatever ”it” may be – to look like.   It is really that simple  — being relentless about the outcome and trusting that you will [...]

“It used to be that we thought we had to fall in love in order to commit to a person. Is it not possible that we commit to loving and the journey that this love takes us on?  The former is a journey of fantasy and karma; the later the journey of co-creation and transformation” [...]

Dear Divorce Guru, I’m curious whether the cost of divorce is rising for men and women in their 40s and 50s. Are there newer laws in certain states requiring couples to file separately, thereby driving up costs? Or are men or women getting a larger share of the others’ assets upon divorce? Anything changing over [...]

Be supportive and “actively listen” – I mean really “hear” what he/she is saying. Try and move them out of victim mode.  Do this by encouraging them to find the leanings for themselves and reflecting back to them what they have said. Don’t tell them that you saw their ex out with someone else. Encourage [...]

I am so excited!!!!!! I have started a new organization called kidsempowerment.com/org. This is a charity/organization that is going to help kids who have been victims of abuse/violence.   After working with so many families going through divorce and often just life – I am often shocked at how little care some parents have for the [...]

Encourage them to get help – everyone needs someone completely objective to talk to and a well qualified counselor will help them move through divorce faster and help avoid attracting the same situation all over again. They will repeat the pattern if they have not learned the lesson they were to learn.Offer to do something [...]

Our system has failed!!!  As you know Fairway Divorce Solutions® is working to change the way divorce happens but what happens in the meantime?  I was just reading yet another article about a father who killed his children during the divorce proceedings. You all know, I am not gender biased as FDS supports both men [...]

Ask yourself what it is that bothers you about it. Are you judging them or are you really empathetic to their pain?  This is an opportunity to look at your own stuff and buttons (your shadow).  If we attract everything to us then consider that you have attracted your friends/families divorce and there are learning’s [...]

If you are getting divorced or know someone who is then…do not let them or yourself play the victim. Everything happens for a reason and believe it or not – just at the right time. Embrace the difficult journeys in your life and know with certainty that it is meant to be. Learn the lessons [...]

Does the present process of divorce provoke murder? These are two words we do not want to think about together in the same sentence but unfortunately in too many cases this is the outcome. The question is, does the present process of divorce provoke murder?  With over $1 million divorces in the United States each [...]